Wednesday, October 04, 2006

After reading 12 letters between my dad and my chinese teacher, i realised that he being in RI teaching a bunch of losers like us is really 大材小用. heres a sample of the most recent letter he sent me and my dad.

宁远学长台鉴:

政海翻腾,商场斗智,此古往今来之规律,东坡谓之为“春江水暖鸭先知”。回想晚清人物,岂非史鉴!为政者如李少荃(鸿章)、张香涛(之洞)翁常熟(同龢)、瞿鸿机等皆一时鸿儒;从商者如南通状元张謇、郑观应、唐廷枢、胡雪岩等皆一时俊彦,然纵观其一生,能宠辱不惊,进退自如者仅曾国藩一人耳。愚意以为曾氏之处世哲学虽历经百余年,仍是我辈之生活典范,故暇时还以读曾氏家书为乐。其于进退、应对之学,实孟子所谓深造自得矣!当年印公自香港赴台,不料却遭变相“羁留”,谁知却造就印公之伟大成就。福深信庄子所言,喜怒哀乐,不入胸次,虽此境界不易达,但愿与共勉之。

承您不弃,引为朋友,深感幸甚!福曾肄业于台湾国立师范大学国文系,后毕业于澳门东亚大学(今澳门大学)之文史系,获新加坡国立大学中文系硕士(论文为《汉溪书法通解研究》)。曾师事施香沱先生习书画篆刻,为先生晚年弟子。大材小用一语,愧不敢当!滥竽充数,为稻梁谋耳!此乃由衷之言,非虚矫也!肃此 敬颂

崇祺



陈培福稽首

丙戌仲秋

附候:夫人尊前问好不另。

Gosh i tell you. I can barely make out what he is trying to say! I mean i know he is listing his credentials and something about the politcal turmoil of the Chinese empire or something like that. But its a whole world different from the Chinese i learn and USE! I think its really sad that he's stuck with a bunch of boys like us. He should be teaching in the university or something.

I know my dad's chinese is really good too. And i'm so ashamed i'm not even up to his standard. There are tons of chinese books all over the house and in his library, and i don't even know how to appreciate them.

培福学弟:

泰国政变,对我的情绪影响很大。思潮汹涌澎湃,久久未能平息。 很多朋友,一夜之间,被打入牛棚,变成牛鬼蛇神;又有一些朋友,无缘无故,平步青云,一觉醒来,飞上枝头,作了当劝派。 我感叹人言之可畏,从文化大革命到泰国政变,“欲加之罪,何患无词” 还是人整人颠扑不破的真理。毛泽东,周恩来之间的恩恩怨怨,塔信的崛起和倒台,以致众叛亲离,让我深深的感触到在商场,战场,官场上,真的没有朋友,也没有真情。成者为王,败者为寇,很使我有高处不胜寒的醒悟。 佛法说:苦海无边,回头是岸,可是还有多少人,宁愿浮沉于苦海中;是否要等到被淹没时,才能看到彼岸??急流勇退,能退才是勇,但是又有几个人能作得到呢? 由台北,到泰国,山雨欲来风满楼,是不是又逢风起云涌时??此刻,能与您天南地北,无拘无束,不分职称,鱼雁往还,畅谈天下事,是很值得庆幸的。 想学弟您必有同感!

我几十年来最大的遗憾是没有在中四华文的基础上继续钻研国学。我也遗憾没有学书法。如今,学到用时方恨少。搞文物鉴定,尤其是书画的鉴定,绝对没有取巧的余地;国学和书法这两项基本功,一丝一毫都不可少。 我的鉴定水平,也因此而永远局限于门外。 为此,我最多是能以一个爱好者和收藏者 (万万不敢自称“家”)的身份来和您谈书画,否则是会闹笑话的。10月18-22日,中国嘉德拍卖行在星加坡举办今年秋拍的于展,颇有看头。主持人王雁南,是赵紫阳,赵总理的女儿,也是多年的老朋友。她来,我一定会请她吃饭,也看看些好东西。您一定要作陪。

据我直觉,单凭您的学识,似乎有大材小用之嫌??方便时,是否能告知您的学历?


顺祝

教安。



宁远 谨启

2006年9月29日于灯下

It really is bleak reminder of their time and MY TIME and what i'm doing with my chinese education right now. But sometimes, you can't help it can you.

my mom has been reading my phone messages lately. this afternoon i had 3 unread messages before i showered. after that i had none.

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